14 Spots Women Flat Out Refuse for a First Date

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Summary:

  • First dates are about comfort, safety, and looking good, not about costly matters and huge budgets.

  • Avoid unwanted first date locations like your bedroom, his parent’s house, and loud nightclubs for better connections.

  • Memorable first dates should be special, not at a gym, fast-food drive-thru, or a funeral.

First dates are all about finding a comfortable place, safety and looking good. They are not concerned with costly matters and huge budgets but they are concerned with choosing a place that is friendly. Nevertheless, there are places where the mood can be killed immediately. These are 14 locations that would be unwanted by most women in the first date and why.

 

Your Bedroom

Man standing barefoot in a minimalist bedroom with a made bed, bedside lamps, and a laptop on a wooden desk.

Excessive self as it is excessive too soon. The first date is to be harmless and not as though there is some expectation.

 

His Parent House

Three people sitting in a vintage living room with floral furniture, family photos, and a grandfather clock.

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Introducing himself to his family without even knowing them. This is merely a form of pressure.

 

A Loud Nightclub

Crowded nightclub with young men dancing and socializing under colorful lights and a smoky atmosphere.

Dancing and screaming over loud music is not worth it because when you can not speak then you can not find a way to get in touch with one another.

 

A Gym

Two people standing in a gym with treadmills and exercise bikes, one holding a phone.

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Sweat, mirror, inspirational music does not turn the moment flirting or romantic, therefore, it is wiser to prevent this.

 

Fast-Food Drive-Thru

Empty car interior at night with neon signs visible through the window and a faint reflection of a man's face on the glass

Rapid and ordinary but simply sitting and eating in an automobile is like minimal efforts.

 

A Funeral or Sad Event

Mourners in black coats stand in a circle around a coffin with white floral wreaths in a cemetery on a cloudy day.

The first dates must always be memorable and special, it must never be at a saddish location or place. 

 

A Movie Theater

Two men sitting alone in a dark movie theater watching a space-themed film on the screen.

Focusing on the big picture will not support you to establish contact with one another.

 

Your Workplace

Busy modern office with professionals working at desks and walking around in business attire

It makes you feel that you are in a hurry as well as it does not give you a space of your own. It is comparable to scheduling her into your tight time-table.

 

A Long Road Trip

Woman driving a car with a man in the passenger seat on a desert road at sunset

Going away and long distances on the first date can be uncomfortable, and even dangerous to her. 

 

A Cheap Hotel Room

Man and woman sitting on bed in dimly lit, sparsely furnished room with old TV showing static

The hotel room will never evoke a bad impression even when you do not intend to be bad. 

 

A Friend’s Party

Woman in a navy blue jumpsuit looking sad at a party while guests socialize in the background with string lights and balloons.

It is a period when people around you are your acquaintances. Which will not give thee a place to open up and comfortable being.

 

 An Isolated Park at Night

Dimly lit park pathway at night with benches, leafless trees, and a small cat near a lamppost.

The darkness and silence of the place make a person feel awkward and there is a danger of being unsafe as well. 

 

 A Place Far Outside the City

Long empty highway at sunset with an abandoned gas station and building in a flat rural landscape.

Travelling a long distance is too much on the first occasion as it is too binding early.

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A Place You Clearly Hate

Man in suit with arms crossed looking upset, woman in cubicle holding pen in office setting

This is because in case you despise that place then obviously avoid that place or you are going to spend your all time complaining and noises that you are not interested in her.

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